Life Is Not Fair
In this episode, I explore the human tendency to compare our experiences and how this often leads to dissatisfaction, even when we receive good things. Drawing parallels from a thought experiment involving unexpected money and a famous capuchin monkey study, I highlight how our perception of fairness is often based on comparison rather than the inherent value of what we receive. I explain that while life is inherently unfair and we should work to correct injustices, our peace of mind comes from appreciating each moment for what it is, rather than constantly comparing it to what others have or what we think we *should* have. This involves cultivating a willingness to sit with discomfort, rather than constantly seeking to avoid it, and rebelling against the natural inclination to compare, thereby changing our relationship with our experiences.
